BDSM film La secrétaire Steven Shainberg

                           Photo « La secrétaire », un film de Steven Shainberg © Metropolitan Filmexport

 

 

 

Je pensais que chez moi BDSM et « romantisme » avaient une part égale.

Il semblerait, après avoir fait le test dont vous trouverez le lien plus bas, que le BDSM m’intéresse plus que le romantisme.

Pourtant, puisqu’il s’agissait de l’analyser dans le cadre d’une relation à long terme, je pense avoir répondu sans aucune ambiguïté.

Et en plus, pour une fois, je n’ai pas eu à chercher dans le dictionnaire pour saisir le sens des questions.

 

Ou bien alors est-ce qu’aux USA, l’on n’a pas la même notion du « romantisme » que chez nous…

Pourtant, si je ne m’abuse, les mélos les plus sirupeux ce sont bien eux qui nous les ont fourgués !

Ils n’étaient pas BDSM, certes.

Encore que…

 

 

 

You scored 79% in romance and 85% in BDSM interest!

BDSM activites, fantasies, and interests are as personal as anything else in the realm of human sexuality. I hope that this test has given you a sense of your interest in integrating your desire to engage in BDSM into a long-term, loving relationship. For some people, this is essential. Other people are just as happy with "play partners" with whom they can engage in BDSM activities but do so without the real emotional attachment of a long-term, loving relationship. A high score in BDSM indicates a demonstrable interest including experience and a desire to engage in these activities in the future. A high score in romance shows that not only do you hope to be in a long-term relationship, but it would ideally be one in which the caring that you have for your lover results in flexibility on your part and a willingness to learn of the interests of this special person in an open and non-judgmental way. This may both enhance the relationship by bringing the two of you closer and help to keep an erotic charge for a long time to come. If you get a warm feeling when you think of such a future, you are a romantic (like the author of this test!). I hope that you have enjoyed this test and feel that it was worth your time.

Link: The BDSM & long-term relationships Test written by Boston_Passion on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the The Dating Persona Test